I wrote this blog on my other page, “New Dad Series,” but figured I would write it here, as well.
My wife and I travelled for the first time internationally with our infant son. We are blessed to be able to give him an experience of a lifetime. Even though he won’t remember this trip, we will have plenty if pics to remind him. Also, I believe he will have these moments stored somewhere in his subconscious mind. This is the first of many international vacations we plan to take him on.
That being said, traveling with an infant will be different from anything you’ve experienced before. I will not sugarcoat things; it is not easy to travel with an infant. Many challenges and unexpected circumstances will arise and you need to be as prepared as possible. Don’t just fly by the seat of your pants, or whatever that expression is. Basically, don’t just go in blind and hope for the best. This may be okay if it’s just you and other adults. However, when a little human being is involved, who cannot care for themselves, we are on a whole other level.
Let’s start with packing. Have as many toys, snacks, formula, diapers, and other basic comfort necessities as you can. Have these within easy reach when you are on the plane, because you will need them in an instant on several occasions; especially if it’s a long flight. Have a multitude of different toys and whatever your baby finds entertaining available, because they will become bored and need something else to grab their attention. Have pacifiers available and use them during take off and landing. These are the moments when your baby’s ears can start hurting the most, and sucking on a pacifier can ease the discomfort. There are also special earmuffs available that can assist. Your baby may not like to wear them, though. Ours definitely didn’t. However, the pacifier was a lifesaver on numerous occasions during the whole trip. We always tried to avoid excessive pacifier use at home, but during travels, it was necessary to have. Whenever it’s slow and you have time, walk up and down the aisle with your baby so they don’t just stay in one spot for an extended period.
During the trip, never go out without all of the necessities and have a little extra of everything, whether it’s diapers, formula, wipes, pacifiers, and clothes. Not a bad idea to bring a change of clothing for you too. Babies will make a mess at any moment and it will get all over them, and probably you, as well. Always be ready to comfort your baby at the drop of a hat. You may not be able to relax fully, but having your child be comfortable is worth it. If they’re not comfortable, everyone will be miserable, including other people not in your party.
There are measures you can take ahead of time, like booking a bassinet on the plane for the baby to sleep in. Pack the baby’s belongings well ahead of time and check frequently so you don’t miss anything important. Whatever preparation you can do, don’t hesitate to do it. There will be a lot of extra work involved, but the more comfortable your baby is, the better your trip will be.
Let’s quickly talk about Benadryl and sleep aids. Basically, ask your pediatrician about safe dosage for your child if needed to ease anxiety. We never gave our son Benadryl at home, but we had it available during the flight in case it was absolutely needed. We did try a practice dose a few days before flying to make sure there were no adverse reactions. I definitely recommend you do not give any medications for the first time to your infant while they are on the plane. Once again, discuss with your pediatrician about safe and proper doses.
Good luck on your adventures. Despite all of the challenges, being able to take your infant on trips around the world is a great experience. My wife and I are excited to have our son experience the world, just like we have. We are already planning our future vacations together. Please let me know if you have any specific questions.
Nomadic Nurse Ankit 